Every year, the month of October is observed as Pastor Appreciation Month or Clergy Appreciation Month and the second Sunday of October is celebrated as Pastor’s Appreciation Day. In this article, we speak about the history of Clergy Appreciation Month, discuss why it’s important to the church, and give 10 ideas for how to honor your ministry and their families.
Your church needs a solid foundation to remain strong. Today, many churches rely on the ministry to be the rock their congregation is built on.
That puts enormous pressure on pastors, priests, reverends, and ministers. This pressure can build up on the individual and their families and take a toll on the entire congregation. Pastor Appreciation Month was created to highlight the ministry’s role in the church and give thanks for their work.
Every year, October is observed as the Pastor’s Appreciation Month or Clergy Appreciation Month, and the second Sunday of October is celebrated as Pastor’s Appreciation Day.
Those entering the ministry do so because they feel called to the mission. While they may intellectually understand the pressures they will face, the reality can feel different, and at times, overwhelming.
Pastors are there during the most stressful and difficult times of our lives. When someone is sick or has passed away, during a divorce, or when life presents difficult choices, a minister is often the first person called. Their role as counselors and mentors is a vital part of the ministry.
Pastors hold this role 365 days a year, and this is not a 9-to-5 job. It is common for preachers and priests to be called in the middle of the night. When preachers are not actively preaching or counseling, they are still expected to be role models and leaders in the community. A pastor’s family is also held to higher standards and can feel the stress just as deeply.
Preachers and ministers do not enter this field to make money. A pastor’s salary is usually lower than that of board members or deacons in the church. The financial and emotional stress can be overwhelming and lead to burnout and isolation, affecting the individual and the congregation as a whole.
Example: During the COVID pandemic, Derek Prince Ministries UK started an online campaign to help train their pastors with discipleship resources. The appeal is simple and to the point. The campaign page is highly customized with a logo, appealing image, UK gift aid benefits, and recurring intervals, and is more like a personal letter from the director himself. They have also explained each suggested donation amount and the impact it will have on their pastors. A donation page like this can truly help your Pastor Appreciation efforts.
In 1994, Focus on the Family, a global Christian organization, named October Pastor Appreciation Month to promote a specific time of the year when members of the church could financially support their ministry.
It is also called the Clergy Appreciation Day and the Clergy Appreciation Month. While the entire month is special, the second Sunday of October is celebrated specifically.
In 2025, Pastor Appreciation Day will take place on Sunday, 12 October.
As the month has been accepted and promoted by more churches and Christian media groups, “Focus on the Family” has provided practices and suggestions and created its own Pastor Appreciation Guide to help congregations.
According to the Pew Research Center, 65% of adults in the United States are Christian. The Church’s involvement in our country’s history has been vast and has, at times, affected the direction of the country. The role of the clergy has always been crucial to churches and the communities where they are located. In the United States, there is a long record of churches honoring their clergy. Congregations have found many ways to support these individuals through the years.
So, how can you honor your clergy members and their families this October?
Churches should plan their celebrations for Pastor Appreciation Month early in the year to allow enough time to build a strong team and meet financial goals. “Focus on the Family” also suggests that the second weekend of the month should include a special weekend service to honor the entire pastoral staff.
Before we dive into 10 simple and effective Pastor Appreciation Day/Month ideas, check out this free webinar where our expert guests provide you with practical solutions for overcoming the challenges of giving and inspiring your congregation to give consistently and generously.
A personal note or card can mean so much on a hard day. If your congregation wants to show how much your pastor means to you, a message from each family in your church is an excellent way to show your appreciation.
When planning for this type of thank-you gift, it’s vital to start early. Get a team of church members and volunteers together and ask each of them to connect with different families.
Give families ideas on what they could say, and assign a date for the congregation to send their cards to the church. Once your church office has received all the messages, deliver the cards to your pastor’s home, office, or give a gift presentation during a Pastor Appreciation Service.
Local newspapers or radio stations can be an excellent place to publicly honor your pastoral staff. Depending on your location, the cost of placing an ad in the newspaper may be surprisingly affordable. Call the newspaper advertising office to get an idea of how much it will cost and find out if it fits in your church’s budget.
If you can’t swing it alone, you may be able to find a business or church member willing to sponsor your ad.
Include pictures of your clergy and a message of appreciation. A bible verse that speaks to why the pastoral staff is vital to your church can help inspire others to give.
Pro tip: Remember to include the name, address, and website of your church in the message. This ad can also be an opportunity to promote your church to the community.
Sunday school teachers are always looking for ideas to get children involved and excited. Gifts, cards, and art projects from your church’s youngest members can be a beautiful way to show your clergy how much they bring to your community.
Children are creative and honest in their appreciation, so their gifts and art can be moving and memorable for years to come. Let the children speak from the heart and make meaningful gifts, but keep a close eye on their projects in case they accidentally add something inappropriate.
A way to let everyone enjoy this gift is to have the children of your church present these cards and art to the preacher as a surprise during the Pastor Appreciation service.
Texts have gotten a bad rap for being impersonal and unprofessional, but they are also a quick and easy way to send several messages quickly. Your congregation can shock your preacher with a text event. Ask all church members to send a quick thank you message to your pastor’s number at the same time on a particular day.
Ask church members to give clear examples of how the pastor has impacted them and made a difference in their lives and faith. The influx of appreciation and love will surprise and amaze your pastor and give them an idea of how much they are valued.
Another way you can use texts to support your pastor is with a text-to-give campaign. You can invite your congregation to give to your pastoral fund.
Ask donors to text your campaign ID to the given number. In return, they should receive a link to your mobile-friendly campaign page. Donors can click on the link and make their donations directly from their phones. It’s also pretty quick to repeat donations (Donorbox repeat donation feature) the next time they want to support their pastor. Donorbox makes it a breeze for you and your donors.
Here’s a quick video on how to use our Text-to-Give feature:
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Pastors of small churches rarely have enough money to take a trip with their families or even to take their spouses out for a nice dinner. This October, your congregation can show appreciation by purchasing a large gift for your pastor and their family.
Gifts can be for the preacher or their entire family. Some ideas include:
Pro tip: If you are worried a vacation is unaffordable for the church, there are ways you can cut the cost. Does one of your church community members have a vacation home or air miles they can donate? Does anyone work for an airline or large corporation that offers in-kind gifts? Ask around and see how the congregation can contribute to this gift.
If a large present is out of the question this year, another way for church members to provide gifts is with a gift tree. Many churches use this idea during the Christmas season to collect donations for needy families in their communities and around the world. In October, you can use this tree to collect funds or gifts for your pastor and their family.
Add a tree to your church’s entryway. Place cards or envelopes on the tree that include specific amounts or gift ideas. Include a sign asking people to take a card. During church announcements or in the bulletin, you can explain how to take part and give a final date and location for gifts to be sent.
Pro tip: Show flexibility here. Not all people would be comfortable sending gifts to a given location. In that case, you should offer ways to make it easier for them. Set up an online donation page in advance and those who are unwilling to send in-kind gifts or cheques to the pastor can give online. You can also ask them to donate an amount equivalent to the gift.
Even a simple donation page like the one below can help you collect gifts for your pastors during this event. This church’s recurring donation form inspires people to become monthly donors – an excellent way to get consistent help for your clergy members and their families.
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Pastors work every Sunday, sometimes without a break for years. Your minister would likely appreciate some time off. If your congregation has purchased a vacation or large gift for your minister, you can present them with this gift along with the day off to make a bigger splash.
Hire a guest preacher for the week or ask a deacon or board member to fill in. Remember to let your pastor know about this gift before Saturday or Sunday. It can take a whole week or more to create a powerful sermon.
Many churches offer free housing for pastors and their families in exchange for their ministry. On the surface, this is amazing, but most of these homes are older and a bit run down.
On a preacher’s salary, home repair costs can be astronomical. Many preacher’s wives become expert DIYers to keep their homes and appliances running past their prime. Instead of a family vacation or gifts for the children, your congregation could make a significant donation and fix up your pastor’s home this year.
Raise funds to buy new appliances and ask for experts in your congregation to do the repairs for free. If you plan on making significant changes to the home, let your pastor and their family decide on the colors and design. The point of the project is not to let them lift a finger doing the hard work.
Pro tip: Ask local hardware stores for donations or discounts on new appliances. Open-box appliances offer affordable prices on brand-name items. Remember to get a warranty for the open-box items! They may have been returned for a good reason.
Do you have pictures and videos of your pastor’s history with the Church? Have they taken mission trips with your congregation? Have they dressed up for your Church’s Christian pageant or a summer fair? Images like these make a wonderful addition to a video.
Ask your planning team to look through church memorabilia or their pictures to find funny or moving images from the past. Include these pictures and videos with personal messages by congregation members. They should be about how the minister has made a difference in their lives over the years.
If you have an expert videographer in your church or someone who likes to edit videos in their free time, ask them to place these messages and images together. Include a few editing techniques to make it look more professional.
Preachers minister to more than just their church. Often, pastors, priests, and reverends take time to visit the homeless and elder communities to give them messages of God’s love. The time and effort it takes to make these visits can be draining. Not all members of the public are open to the word of God.
If your pastor spends a good amount of their time delivering services to the public, congregation members can support their efforts, too. During October, ask members of the church to sign up and attend these visits with your minister to elder homes or homeless shelters. Give them specific projects to do that day that can make the reverend’s visit more effective.
Sometimes a little help and company can brighten the day. It can help relieve a lot of stress that your clergy may feel about stepping out into the world.
Pastors, priests, reverends, ministers, and preachers are essential parts of the church. When they face isolation, depression, or burnout, this can affect the entire congregation.
Pastor Appreciation Month is not the only time you should support your pastoral staff. Show your appreciation with financial contributions, messages of love, or public announcements.
Whichever way your church chooses to honor your pastoral staff, remember that pastors are human. That they can make mistakes like everyone else. Even Peter’s faith failed when he denied Jesus three times. The best way for congregations to honor their clergy is to pray for their strength and support their work for the church.
Churches, like all nonprofits, must find ways to raise funds. The church needs contributions from its members and the public to continue serving the community and spreading God’s word.
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Kristine Ensor is a freelance writer with over a decade of experience working with local and international nonprofits. As a nonprofit professional she has specialized in fundraising, marketing, event planning, volunteer management, and board development.
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